Welcome to the Cumbria Good Parenting Handbook.

Your job as a parent is one of the most difficult there is - it can be both challenging and rewarding. It is a job where very little training is given to prepare parents for what lies ahead.

Every family experiences difficulty from time to time and this can test the best of parents. When additional pressures come along,these can make a hard job nearly impossible.

At these times it may be hard to think about what help or information you might need.

When things go wrong it does not mean that someone has failed in parenting - things go wrong for everyone. It is often the way difficulties are handled that can make a difference to your children, both now and in the future.

There is no such thing as the perfect parent. However, there are some ways that can make it a less stressful and more rewarding experience.

What is the handbook about?

It is hoped this handbook can offer some ideas and information to help you find your way through what can be a maze of issues and advice. It gives contacts and further information you can follow up when you are deciding how to deal with your worries and difficulties. 

This handbook also lists some of the warning signs of particular difficulties and offers helpful tips.

Who has produced this guide?

This handbook has been produced by Cumbria Children's Fund in partnership with Cumbria Area Child Protection Committee for use by local parents and trainers.